10 Secrets Women Do Not Want You To Know
...especially if you are dating them!
Women are beautiful mysteries wrapped in guiltless vessels, won’t you agree?
The same girl whose charming smile rocks your world has the potential to make it look like there was never a world, to begin with.
Apparently, nothing conceals deceit like beauty.
Security experts opine all the time that to hide vital information; you should keep them in the open. If you want to do better, keep it with a woman.
Women are invariably highly secretive. This characteristic makes them unique, or if you must, imperfect.
So, what has the woman in your life been keeping from you? And why has she been keeping them from you?
Get a cup of coffee. This might turn out to be an overwhelming list.
10 Secrets A Woman Would Never Reveal To You
1. Her Infidelity
Women, believed to be highly emotional then men, often tend to know how hurtful it would be to their partners if they were to find out that they slept with someone else.
A psychologist at Manchester Metropolitan University, Dr. David Holmes, said, “The biggest difference between men and women who cheat is that women are much better at keeping their affairs secret.”
Even if she is caught in the act, a woman’s first urge is to deny infidelity, rather than divulge the information to her partner.
A couple of women would argue that there’s a decency in the fact that they keep their betrayal of trust from a man in order not to break his heart twice.
Coupled with this is the fact that promiscuous women are highly criticized in society.
2. Her Personal Bank Account
If a husband has $12.56 at home and his wife has $2500.00 stuffed somewhere in the same house, how much is in that house?
You have probably come across the above question a couple of times on the internet. You must have also come across replies such as They’ve only got twelve dollars and fifty-six cents in the house!
It doesn’t dispute the fact that women who take care of their financial problems, including the welfare of their family members, exist, but in most homes where the husband is the breadwinner, the wife’s financial account is like a classified document.
Women would often express how their money is theirs, while yours, as a man, is for the entire family to monitor and spend.
Your girl has got money stashed somewhere, and she would die than to tell you where it is.
3. Her Fake Orgasms
Don’t let this surprise you, but women know men generally like to take credit for satisfactory performance in bed, so they keep their lack of an orgasm from their lovers to retain their ego.
You might have to pause and ask your partner if the moaning and screaming the last time were real.
A research conducted by a group of sex experts in the US confirms that sex between a man and a woman ends with the man finishing and the woman, more often than not, laying there wondering if they had an orgasm or faked it.
The study concluded that only 10% of the women interviewed admitted to having an orgasm.
How’s that for your ego as a man?
4. Her Real Sexual Orientation
Here’s another kicker with facts.
A poll was organized by a group known as Pride in London. They asked more than 1000 LGBT+ people how they felt about discussing their orientation in public, and 74% said they felt the need to hide their sexual orientation or gender identity.
Thanks to the awareness championed by celebrities in Hollywood, politicians in the Western world, and social media, lesbians, and bisexuals are beginning to open up about their sexual preferences.
However, there are still a couple of lesbians and heterosexual women, especially in Africa, where there are strong stigmas and homophobic laws, who are stuck with dating the opposite sex because they preferred secrecy over openness about their sexual orientation.
Here is the sordid truth. If your girl likes women, there is an eighty percent chance she wouldn’t kiss and tell like Katy Perry.
You could date and marry her all you want, and she wouldn’t speak a word about her true sexual orientation.
5. The Abortion She Had In The Past
You definitely can’t know everything a woman has done in the past, so don’t be surprised if you stumble upon a medical report that contradicts the pro-life statements and loud statuses on your girl’s twitter handle.
According to Guttmacher Institute, a primary source dedicated to researches on abortions and policy analysis in the US, more than 867,000 females had an abortion in the year 2017 alone.
59% of women population obtaining abortions are mothers, and 24% are predicted to have an abortion at age 45.
Well, this doesn’t have to be a secret if their men could use a condom, right?
And now, if you ever found out about the abortion she had in the past, it becomes a secret you have to keep too.
6. Her Nasty Exploits from The Past
Women have had insane sexual escapades in the past, too, or whom do you think young men experiment with?
Although most women are clever enough to conceal how dirty and lustful they have been, observe, and she might just give it away with speeches like, “You are not doing it right” or “Room 145 is better than room 49. The air conditioner works fine, I think.”
Move to the next on this long list with this note though: everyone has a past, and there’s nothing wrong with that.
What’s wrong with it is when she puts up appearances that are opposite to who she is.
Hypocrisy is a worse trait than keeping secrets.
7. She is Comparing You with Her Ex
All right. Take a pause. How’s that coffee, and how’s your penis too?
Has your woman ever made a comment about its size? Or, has she complained about how slow or too fierce you are during sex – at least against what she expected?
Observe to see if she makes such comments more than once. If she does, she’s unconsciously telling you the difference between you and the last guy, or the side guy.
Or perhaps not.
Nevertheless, cheating – either with actions or thoughts – is a gradual habit that transforms into a constant one. The fact that she still thinks of her ex in the new relationship says a lot about where her heart is.
If she’s still in love with her ex, she’s smart enough to know the consequence of what such information will do to her relationship.
You might have to refer back to the first item on this list.
8. She Hates The Blow Job
What were you thinking – that she enjoys having your meat in her mouth?
New studies show that women who participate in oral sex, particularly having a man’s penis in their mouth, do it for the returns or as a way of appreciation.
According to some extreme feminists, the idea of going on their knees in front of a man or having a man’s dick in their mouth is degrading.
Due to their hatred for cultural stereotypes, some women see fellatio as a way for men to show their domination over women.
Go home with this: the next time your dick is in her mouth, remember to be thankful and do not forget to repay the favor.
9. If She Has STDs
Okay, your woman loves you with all her heart, but she probably doesn’t you love you enough to lose you to demeaning details like STD.
She’s ready to pay for drugs from her purse and shop for condoms for you.
A blog recognized as Avert.org claims that young women between the ages of 15 to 49 account for more than half the number of people living with HIV worldwide.
According to their study, in the year 2017 alone, 7000 adolescent girls and young women became HIV positive.
This is a higher rate, compared to new infections among young men, with young women twice as likely to contract HIV as their male peers.
You probably should take a few last gulps from that coffee now.
And if she ever insisted you get a condom before going down, sprint to the nearest store as fast as you can.
10. She Visits Your Porn Stash
Men keep porn videos in their devices to spice up their sex life, but videos like that are still private nonetheless. You do agree, right?
If your woman is not peeking into your phone or devices for the messages and pictures you’ve deleted, be aware that she’s probably having a nice time watching that porn you stashed.
Surprisingly, she won’t mention this to you, unless she feels jealous about the women in the porn videos.
Don’t be surprised if she walks up to you with a sordid frown over one of the videos on your phone.
And yes! She is giving you hell for choosing a video with a woman who has got bigger tits!
How dare you!
Let’s get this out of the system.
Seven out of ten failed relationships are due to keeping secrets. The only upside to women keeping secrets from you is that they earn your trust and keep their past unknown at the same time.
However, keeping secrets threatens a good relationship. The longer women keep secrets from men, the more they jeopardize communication between them and the people that genuinely love them.
If you are reading this and probably feel your girl has been keeping some secrets from you, now might be a perfect time to pop the question and pray she is honest with you.
Communication goes both ways. You might want to start by revealing some of the secrets you’ve been hiding from her too.
Good luck, and drop your thoughts about this piece below!